You’ve been stuck in an unhappy marriage for longer than you care to admit.
Maybe your spouse is cheating on you. Maybe s/he is having an emotional affair.
Or maybe the two of you have just drifted apart.
Whatever the cause, things aren’t good. And they haven’t been good for a long, long time.
In this excellent blog posting, Karen Covey writes about people staying stuck in unhappy marriages for many reasons, the beliefs they hold about what marriage is “supposed” to be and what they “should” do, and how to deal with these issues when they're keeping you stuck in an unhappy marriage.