There are many things no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexander - part II of her article in four parts - concerns itself with another major, often overlooked, issue in the divorce process. We hope this helps in adjusting expectations and preparing so you can best manage through this largely unmanageable time. II. Status quo and Shifting Ground Often folks must carry on with daily life as if nothing has changed, when everything is, in fact, changing. Thi

There are many things that no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexander – an article in four acts – concerns itself with four major, often overlooked problems with the divorce process. Bringing attention to them can help you prepare and adjust your expectations accordingly. I. Delays – a multifactorial problem In the divorce process, hurry up, rev up, and then wait. Divorce, especially if you are litigating, is replete with delays. You are expecting someth

In this excellent article from the New York Times, Cathi Hanauer writes of her and her husband's experience ending their three decade marriage. "So overall, my experience has cemented my view that when wedlock no longer feels right or healthy later in life — and if, like us, you’re fortunate enough to have careers, adult kids and a willingness to do the work of a good split (not unlike being in a good marriage!) — then unlocking, becoming separate again, can be a fine option.

There are many things that no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexandar – an article in four acts – concerns itself...

There are many things that no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexandar – an article in four acts – concerns itself...

There are many things that no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexandar – an article in four acts – concerns itself...

There are many things that no one tells you about divorce. This article by Rachel Alexandar – an article in four acts – concerns itself...

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