Alan JacobsMay 32 minKey Considerations Before Filing for DivorceFiling for divorce is one of the most difficult life-changing decisions in a person’s lifetime and one which many spouses are...
Alan JacobsApr 121 min10 Important Financial Factors To Consider During A DivorceNavigating a divorce is challenging not only emotionally, but also financially. Given the legal ramifications, emotional stress and...
Alan JacobsDec 14, 20213 minAm I Entitled to More Because my Spouse Ruined Our Marriage?There are a lot of reasons why couples decide to get divorced. Financial troubles, lack of communication, continual arguing, unrealistic...
Alan JacobsDec 1, 20213 minWhat Does a Divorce Mediator Do and Not Do?Divorce mediation is an increasingly popular alternative to traditional litigation that allows couples to resolve the terms and...
Alan JacobsNov 23, 20213 minMaking Divorce Mediation Work for YouMediation is a great solution for many divorcing couples. However, since no settlement can become legally binding without the approval of...
Alan JacobsNov 16, 20212 minAre there some cases that should not go through mediation?The short answer is yes, there are some cases that are not well-suited for mediation. However, it is important not to jump to conclusions...
Alan JacobsNov 2, 20211 minDivorce Involving Disabilities Can Prove ChallengingIn terms of who it can affect, divorce does not discriminate. Individuals of all backgrounds can find themselves facing marital issues,...
Alan JacobsOct 26, 20211 minAre mediated divorces better for children than litigated divorces?While every situation is different, mediated divorces are generally better for the children involved than if the divorce goes through...
Alan JacobsSep 28, 20211 minHow to Make Divorce Mediation Work For YouYour life was building with a marriage, career and growing family, but now it’s not. Divorce isn’t merely a thought. It’s what’s...
Alan JacobsSep 7, 20212 minUsing Mediation When You Decide to SeparateSome couples reach a point in their marriage where they are considering divorce, but they are not sure about taking such a permanent...
Alan JacobsAug 17, 20211 minHow To Keep Your Stuff Through DivorceDividing property in a divorce process can be an emotional and difficult process. It’s common for each party to often feel that the...
Alan JacobsAug 10, 20213 minDivorce Does Not Have to Leave You in Major DebtA recent article in Yahoo!money about the increasing interest in divorce loans as the country continues to deal with the unprecedented...
Alan JacobsJul 20, 20211 minTips for a Productive Divorce MediationIt’s a common mistake for divorcing spouses to confuse mediation with couple’s therapy. Mediation should be thought of as a conversation...
Alan JacobsJun 29, 20213 minNow More than Ever, Creativity is Needed in DivorcesWe live in an uncertain world where things can change radically at the drop of a hat. We experienced this last year in a huge way with...
Alan JacobsJun 22, 20211 minHow to Prepare for Divorce – 54 Experts Share Their Best TipsGoing through a divorce or legal separation is a complicated and overwhelming ordeal. So if you’ve made the decision to divorce or are...
Alan JacobsJun 1, 20211 minAn Ode to Divorce MediationIn this excellent article from the Jersey City Times, Jayne Freedman, offers, in her words, "an ode to divorce mediation", particularly...
Alan JacobsMay 18, 20211 minYour Attitude Makes a Difference!Many people consider negotiations to be stressful and threatening. Others view them as challenges to be overcome. Do these different ...
Alan JacobsMay 4, 20213 minThe Dangers of a "Do-It-Yourself" DivorceRecently I had a couple come to me with a separation agreement that they drafted themselves and signed, making it a binding agreement. I...
Alan JacobsApr 20, 20211 minDating After a Divorce: When to Introduce Children to a New PartnerOne of the most common issues that comes up after a divorce is finalized is when and how to expose your younger children to new love...
Alan JacobsMar 23, 20212 min50/50 Parenting Time: Is This What’s Best for Children?In recent years, there has been a definite shift toward parents wanting to have equal parenting time with their children after a divorce....