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Can We Use Divorce Mediation to Handle That?
Mediation can handle any of the issues that might come up in your divorce. The only difference between addressing these issues through...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 13, 20193 min read
What NOT To Do Before Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
Like Jennifer Safian, a divorce mediator in New York City, I offer couples a free, no obligation consultation so that they can meet and...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 6, 20191 min read
Premarital Cohabitation and Alimony
Although common law marriage is not legal in Massachusetts, it is important to recognize that Massachusetts courts often consider...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 30, 20192 min read
10 Benefits of Divorce Mediation
An impending divorce is profoundly stressful and vulnerable because of the potential loss and uncertainty of so many areas of life,...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 23, 20191 min read
Use Mediation to Keep Your Divorce Records Private
Thinking about “the public record” when you’re in the middle of a divorce isn’t easy. Your head is already spinning, your heart is...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 16, 20192 min read
How a Litigated Divorce Ruins People
The antagonistic nature of litigation often results in otherwise cooperative people thinking that their spouse is out to get them, even...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 9, 20191 min read
Assets Can Be Complicated: The Use of Experts
Many people don’t realize that divorce mediation can include outside experts who assist divorcing spouses with complex financial issues....

Alan Jacobs
Jul 2, 20192 min read
The 401(k) Plan and Your Divorce
Divorce itself is an emotionally charged, troubling process. When you add major financial decisions to the mix it can create a recipe for...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 25, 20191 min read
Why Reaching A Divorce Agreement Is Better Than Going To Trial
As an experienced divorce mediator, I often hear from potential clients in long term marriages or relationships that come in for a...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 18, 20192 min read
How Divorce Can Affect Your Credit Score
Divorce can affect your credit score as well as every part of your life and the lives of your family. Finances are no exception. When you...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 11, 20191 min read
Retirement Accounts in Divorce: Five Common Questions
Valuing and dividing retirement accounts is more complex than most divorcing couples expect. In this excellent blog posting, the Divorce...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 4, 20191 min read
Five Myths of Mediation
There are 5 common misbeliefs about mediation that may be preventing divorcing people from accessing this cost-effective, humanistic...

Alan Jacobs
May 28, 20193 min read
I Confess - I Often Want to Hug My Clients
When new clients come through my door looking distraught, I must confess – – I want to give them a hug. When clients come for follow up...

Alan Jacobs
May 21, 20192 min read
50/50 Parenting Time: Is This What’s Best for Children?
In recent years, there has been a definite shift toward parents wanting to have equal parenting time with their children after a divorce....

Alan Jacobs
May 14, 20194 min read
Navigating a Divorce When You Co-Own a Business
In a divorce, a judge unwinds a couple’s financial entanglements. But what happens if you own a business together with your spouse? In...

Alan Jacobs
May 7, 20192 min read
10 Things You Need To Know About Divorce And Financial Aid
There are ten things you need to know about divorce and financial aid and these ten things could help you to significantly reduce the...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 30, 20191 min read
What You Need to Know About Custody & Child Support
If you’re separated or getting a divorce from your kid’s other parent, you probably have a ton of questions about custody and child...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 23, 20192 min read
Power Imbalances in Divorce Mediation
One of the basic requirements of divorce mediation is that the mediator be neutral and impartial. Certainly, this means that the mediator...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 16, 20192 min read
How Much Can I Save Mediating My Divorce?
The fees to simply retain an attorney for each party in a divorce start around $5,000 for an average case. That means you will spend...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 9, 20193 min read
Gray Divorce: How Divorcing Later In Life Can Affect Your Retirement Plans
Over the past quarter-century, as the divorce rate among couples 25 to 39 years old decreased 21%, the rate of divorce among adults 50...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 2, 20192 min read

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