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Debt and Divorce
Finances are the leading cause of stress in a relationship, and disagreements over debt—accumulating it, managing it, and getting it paid...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 26, 20193 min read
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Alimony After the 2017 Tax Code Changes
One of the givens for divorcing couples in the United States has always been the alimony is deducted from the payor’s income and...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 19, 20192 min read
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Child Custody and Mediation
Child custody conflicts are among the most stressful and potentially damaging aspects of a divorce for everyone involved – but is there...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 12, 20192 min read
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Divorce Mediation - What to Expect
Many times the thought of going to court to resolve issues pending in your divorce is frightening. Accordingly, it makes sense, prior to...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 5, 20191 min read
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Is Mediation Right for You? Here's Everything You Need to Know
Are you asking this type of questions? What's the role of mediator? How does mediation work? What are the advantages of mediation? What...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 26, 20191 min read
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Calculating a Pension’s Present Value
When someone has a monthly pension, sometimes they would like to keep that pension for themselves and pay the other spouse the cash...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 19, 20192 min read
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The Need for Budgets in Divorce Mediation
Budget preparation, even in the best of times, is not exactly an enjoyable task that people look forward to. Yet, it’s something that is...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 12, 20191 min read
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Helping Divorcing Couples Divide Belongings
The technique used by most divorcing couples for dividing furnishings and personal belongings is simple. The parties create a master list...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 5, 20191 min read
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The Children’s Bill of Rights
Many of the couples I see in my divorce mediation practice have children. Not surprisingly, I find that some parents are more able than...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 29, 20193 min read
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After Your Divorce: You’re Not Done Until You Do These Things
What many people don’t realize is that, even though your divorce judgment says who gets what after your divorce, the judgment alone...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 22, 20192 min read
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Fewer Violations of Mediated Divorce Agreements
In my work with divorcing couples, I have often observed that divorce agreements that result from the mediation process are less likely...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 15, 20193 min read
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What Should You Ask Your Mediator at the Initial Session?
At my initial free consultations, I usually start by giving potential clients an overview of the mediation process, a little bit of...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 11, 20196 min read
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Mediating Child Support Provides Flexibility
When you mediate your divorce, you generally have more flexibility in determining a child support solution that works for everyone. By...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 8, 20182 min read
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How To Handle Money With Your Ex After Divorce
Disagreements about money can put stress on a marriage. Hopefully, like the author of this excellent article, as you went through your...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 26, 20182 min read
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Social Security Rules to Know If You're Divorced
Social Security benefits will likely account for a substantial amount of your retirement income, so you'll want to get the maximum...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 24, 20181 min read
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What Impact Does Remarriage Have on Child Support?
It is not an uncommon situation: You divorced several years ago and agreed to monthly child support payments. But now you're remarrying,...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 21, 20181 min read
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Lawyers Favor Mediation Over Litigation
According to a Canadian Forum on Civil Justice survey of family lawyers, they overwhelmingly favored using mediation to settle disputes,...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 19, 20181 min read
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Selling Your Home While Going Through a Divorce
In this blog posting, Jennifer Safian interviews David Perry, a certified divorce real estate broker on: how his role differs when...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 9, 20181 min read
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Should You Get a Divorce Now or Later?
As I've written previously, the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 (TCJA) that took effect in January has added a new urgency for wealthy...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 31, 20182 min read
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The New Tax Code’s Impact on Divorce
Divorces are difficult, but add to them the stress of trying to understand tax law, and the road ahead looks even darker. One bright spot...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 16, 20184 min read
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