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Divorce Separation Blues
A different kind of blog posting ... The Avett Brothers' new album, "True Sadness", includes the song "Divorce Separation Blues" which...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 23, 20172 min read
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Tips for a Better Child Custody Mediation Experience
There is a no more contentious topic on the face of the Earth than children, particularly as their parents struggle with custody...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 20, 20172 min read
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Co-Parenting: 5 Tips for Raising Well-Adjusted Kids After Divorce
Divorce is hard and the truth is that most times, married couples never really part ways on the best note. A lot of disappointment, pain,...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 18, 20171 min read
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How Will A Child’s College Education Be Funded?
A question to be answered by all parents—separated or divorced parents, married or unmarried—is: How will the child’s college education...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 9, 20171 min read
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The Podcast of My Interview on WCAI's The Point Talking About Divorce Mediation
Listen to the podcast of my interview on WCAI's The Point talking about how divorce mediation provides an amicable resolution to...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 16, 20161 min read
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The Emotional Divorce
The emotional aspect of divorce is often the most challenging, since the parties’ emotions directly impact all of the other elements. It...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 14, 20161 min read
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Mediation is A Better Choice for Children of Divorce
Like Susan Ingram the majority of the couples I see in divorce mediation have children. Early on in the mediation process, when I ask...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 12, 20161 min read
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A Plea for Mediation
In this blog posting, Ada Hasloecher shares a letter a wife wrote to her husband asking that they return to mediation and "allowing...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 8, 20161 min read
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Living Together After Divorce
When most people get divorced the last thing they want to do is continue living together in the same house. One of the prime reasons to...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 6, 20161 min read
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Nobody Said Mediation Would Be Easy
Like Clare Piro, I think mediation can be a hard thing to do. And while I firmly believe that it is the best option to resolve conflict,...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 2, 20161 min read
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Your Heart May Be Broken In Your Divorce; Don't Let Your Wallet Be
The average cost of an uncontested divorce in Canada is $1,845, but a contested divorce can cost anywhere from $6,145 to $87,974, with...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 30, 20161 min read
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Children of Divorce Deserve Special Holiday Attention
We all know the holiday season is fraught with stress, overwhelm and pressure for parents. But we are not alone. For children facing...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 28, 20161 min read
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Finding A New Kind Of Partnership Through Divorce
When you're facing a major life change, it helps to talk to someone who's already been through it. All Things Considered is connecting...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 18, 20161 min read
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The 4 Elements of Divorce
When most people are going through a divorce they don’t think about the various elements that come into play during this difficult...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 16, 20161 min read
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7 Steps to Balance Financial Inequality Between Co-Parents
During the early stages of separation a fear many of our clients voice is that their children will prefer being with their more affluent...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 14, 20162 min read
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Spousal Maintenance (Alimony) and Retirement
In Massachusetts the spousal maintenance (alimony) statute provides an advisory schedule, based on the length of the marriage, for the...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 9, 20161 min read
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How To Help Your Kids Through a Divorce
Dissolving a marriage takes an emotional toll on everyone involved, including (and especially) the children. In this excellent blog...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 7, 20161 min read
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Yeah Right. Court Will Make Things Better.
How you go about resolving the conflict between you and your spouse could change everything. If you have 3 minutes, watch this excellent...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 5, 20161 min read
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The Main Benefits Of Mediation In Divorce Cases
When faced with the prospect of an impending divorce, most people immediately think about going to court. However, the thought of...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 2, 20162 min read
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6 Proven Co-Parenting Strategies for Divorced Parents
While moving through divorce can seem like an insurmountable obstacle, for many parents it is just the beginning of a new and equally...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 31, 20161 min read
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