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Discussing Divorce with Your Spouse
Like Susan Ingram, often, when someone first calls me to discuss the possibility of divorce mediation, they will mention that they have...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 21, 20171 min read
Instead of Litigating, Mediate
You are in conflict with your former partner. You see a family lawyer who tells you s/he can be of assistance. The lawyer offers to send...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 19, 20171 min read
How to Prepare for Divorce Mediation
If you are preparing for divorce mediation, on some levels you have already won when it comes to your divorce. You both have won,...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 14, 20171 min read
Five Lessons for a Successful Mediation
In this blog posting, Ada Hasloecher offers five lessons that have held her clients in good stead during their mediations: Don’t...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 12, 20171 min read
Untangling Lives: The Divorce Mediation Process
Divorce mediation, as opposed to a contested divorce (in which each spouse hires an attorney and fights it out through the court system),...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 9, 20171 min read
7 Practical Steps to a Strong Financial Future After Divorce
In this blog posting Sandra Banks offers seven practical steps to a strong financial future after divorce. These include: Consult a...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 7, 20171 min read
Reverse Mortgages and "Grey Divorce"
While divorces at any age create financial issues, older folks face unique challenges stemming from their shorter timelines. That’s...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 5, 20171 min read
3 Signs You’re Ready For A Divorce
Is it ever right to consider divorce, especially if you’re a parent? Of course, divorce should be avoided whenever possible. It’s not a...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 2, 20171 min read
Need Help Getting Your Spouse to Mediation?
Like Eileen Coen, I've received many phone calls from people seeking an uncontested divorce, but don’t know how to get their spouse to...

Alan Jacobs
May 31, 20171 min read
Mediation, Collaboration Or Divorce Court — Which One Is Right For YOU?
Once you get past the difficult decision of deciding to divorce, you're faced with another daunting question: how should you go about...

Alan Jacobs
May 26, 20171 min read
Why is Mediation Often the Best Choice for Divorcing Couples?
There are many reasons for couples to choose to mediate their divorce as opposed to proceeding with a contested/litigated process. In...

Alan Jacobs
May 1, 20171 min read
Adjusting Parenting Arrangements After A Move
Custody disputes arising after one parent moves away can be some of the most “intractable” conflicts often leading to arbitration or...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 28, 20171 min read
5 Tips for Choosing the Right Divorce Mediator
Choosing a divorce mediator is the first agreement divorcing spouses make together at the beginning of the divorce mediation process. It...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 26, 20171 min read
Four Points You Should Know About Divorce and Taxes
Filing taxes is a reality that adults across the United States face each year. For many, it can feel like a painful task. However, filing...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 24, 20171 min read
Divorce Mediation Should Be First Choice for ALL Couples
I've believed this for a long time ... but I'm obviously prejudiced. It's nice to read this from someone else - in this case Ken...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 31, 20171 min read
What Should You Look For in a Divorce Mediator?
Going through a separation or divorce is a major life event, so you want to be sure that the mediator you choose to help you navigate...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 29, 20171 min read
Are You Sure You Want To Go To Court?
"Let the Judge Decide!" In many cases, when a spouse or their attorney feels that they are unable to reach an agreement with the other...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 27, 20172 min read
7 Things That Just Aren’t True about the Divorce and the Legal System
It’s no surprise that, in a society that has been raised on a diet of cinematic court room dramas and reality TV, we tend to think we...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 24, 20171 min read
Post-Divorce Checklist: Tasks To Complete
It is commonly believed that once a settlement is reached in a divorce case and the divorce decree is issued that the divorce case is...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 22, 20171 min read
5 Positive Lessons Children Learn From Divorce
Many parents worry their divorce will negatively effect their children. However, one psychologist says divorce can have a positive impact...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 20, 20171 min read

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