While divorce rates have been dropping across age groups in recent years, the exception to that trend is among Americans ages 65 and up. While the reasons are complicated, this excellent article in th

Blame. While I steer well clear of the word and concept in mediation, I am continually pulled towards it in life. There is a lot wrong with blame. It usually lacks compassion, is rich in judgment, and

Divorce has a way of activating shame. Quietly or loudly, many people turn inward and begin assigning blame - sometimes to their former partner, often to themselves. The internal narrative can be rele