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An Ode to Divorce Mediation
In this excellent article from the Jersey City Times, Jayne Freedman, offers, in her words, "an ode to divorce mediation", particularly...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 1, 20211 min read
Defining A Substantial Change Of Circumstances For Custody Modification
After a divorce or child custody determination, one thing that frequently comes up is the desire to modify the court’s order. It is well...

Alan Jacobs
May 25, 20211 min read
How Divorced Families Can Maximize Their Relief From The New Stimulus Package
The $1.9 trillion American Rescue Plan Act of 2021 (the "American Rescue Plan") is now enacted. The package expands relief provisions...

Alan Jacobs
May 11, 20211 min read
The Dangers of a "Do-It-Yourself" Divorce
Recently I had a couple come to me with a separation agreement that they drafted themselves and signed, making it a binding agreement. I...

Alan Jacobs
May 4, 20213 min read
4 Benefits of Shared Parenting
With all of the recent legislative victories that support shared parenting as a legal standard in the United States, it is important to...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 27, 20211 min read
Dating After a Divorce: When to Introduce Children to a New Partner
One of the most common issues that comes up after a divorce is finalized is when and how to expose your younger children to new love...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 20, 20211 min read
4 Social Media Mistakes To Avoid During Divorce
Divorce is often a messy and stressful life event that leaves you wanting to scream to anyone who will listen. It’s completely normal to...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 13, 20213 min read
The Child-Parent Relationship After High-Conflict Divorce
For some parents, divorce is the only way they can see out of a marriage filled with bitter battles, resentment, blame, and perhaps even...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 6, 20212 min read
5 Ways to Strengthen Your Bond with Your Teen After Divorce
Unlike younger children, teens are more likely to take sides during and after a divorce. It’s not difficult to understand why this...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 30, 20212 min read
50/50 Parenting Time: Is This What’s Best for Children?
In recent years, there has been a definite shift toward parents wanting to have equal parenting time with their children after a divorce....

Alan Jacobs
Mar 23, 20212 min read
Make Parent-Child Communication A Top Priority After Divorce
It’s no secret. One of the biggest challenges a parent faces after divorce is having healthy communication with your children. All...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 16, 20211 min read
Mindset Matters in Divorce: How to Go from Scarcity to Abundance
Every sports or business coach will tell you that mindset matters. Your mindset determines, to a large extent, whether you win or lose;...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 9, 20211 min read
The Best Way to Decide Who Gets the House in a Divorce
If you’ve ever owned a house that you love, you understand on a gut level that your house is more than a bunch of bricks and shingles....

Alan Jacobs
Mar 2, 20212 min read
Divorce During COVID – How We Have Adapted
Like almost everything else in life, the COVID-19 pandemic has greatly altered the practice of family law. With court closures and...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 16, 20212 min read
Parental Steps to Reduce the Emotional Harm of Divorce on Children
As a marriage dissolves, some parents find themselves asking questions like, “Should we stay together for the kids?” Other parents find...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 9, 20211 min read
7 Co-Parenting Communication Tips
It is a well-known fact that the life of a child with divorced parents is not the same as the life of those with parents who are still...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 2, 20211 min read
The Finances of Joint Custody Agreements: 10 Things You Must Know
Ending a marriage, especially when a child (or multiple children) is involved, is challenging on so many levels. In this excellent...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 26, 20212 min read
What Happens to Co-Owned Property Upon Divorce?
Married people need to know that, upon divorce, by operation of law, they no longer own their home as tenants by the entirety. Upon...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 19, 20212 min read
An Age-By-Age Guide For Helping Children Through Divorce
Research tells us that children of divorce face many risks. It is a major challenge for kids to cope with the drastic change that is...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 5, 20211 min read
How High Net Worth Couples Can Benefit from Divorce Mediation
When couples with significant assets decide to get divorced, it can become a costly and protracted proceeding. The average cost for...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 22, 20202 min read

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