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How To Explain Your Divorce To Your Children
You and your spouse have decided to divorce, and now you face the daunting task of telling your children. Be aware that how you explain...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 17, 20171 min read
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Divorced Parents: Effective Communication Is Key to Co-Parenting Success
While divorce may end a marriage, when you’re a parent it doesn’t end the need for working together on behalf of your children. How you...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 15, 20171 min read
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6 Things Positive Co-Parents Do Differently
It doesn’t matter if your ex is a narcissist, if they refuse to communicate, or if they constantly attack you - what matters is you. Are...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 13, 20171 min read
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Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced Couples
Joint custody arrangements after a separation or divorce can become quite stressful. Each parent will have to learn how to let go of the...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 9, 20171 min read
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Why Do People Get Divorced?
No one looks to get divorced because they’ve just had a bad day or are bored. Couples thinking about divorce are despairing. Divorce is...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 10, 20171 min read
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How Long Does Divorce Mediation Take?
How long is this going to take? When can we get this over with? Often, those are two of the first questions clients ask. When people are...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 1, 20171 min read
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Divorce After 50 Can Destroy Even the Best Retirement Plans
The phenomenon of late-life divorce is growing fast -- and blowing apart a lot of divorcing spouses' retirement plans in the process....

Alan Jacobs
Jan 27, 20171 min read
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8 Steps to Get Ready for Your Refinance
Many of my divorce mediation clients' main asset is the equity in their home. Often, one spouse chooses to purchase the other's share of...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 25, 20171 min read
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Divorce Separation Blues
A different kind of blog posting ... The Avett Brothers' new album, "True Sadness", includes the song "Divorce Separation Blues" which...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 23, 20172 min read
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Tips for a Better Child Custody Mediation Experience
There is a no more contentious topic on the face of the Earth than children, particularly as their parents struggle with custody...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 20, 20172 min read
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Co-Parenting: 5 Tips for Raising Well-Adjusted Kids After Divorce
Divorce is hard and the truth is that most times, married couples never really part ways on the best note. A lot of disappointment, pain,...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 18, 20171 min read
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How Will A Child’s College Education Be Funded?
A question to be answered by all parents—separated or divorced parents, married or unmarried—is: How will the child’s college education...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 9, 20171 min read
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The Podcast of My Interview on WCAI's The Point Talking About Divorce Mediation
Listen to the podcast of my interview on WCAI's The Point talking about how divorce mediation provides an amicable resolution to...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 16, 20161 min read
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The Emotional Divorce
The emotional aspect of divorce is often the most challenging, since the parties’ emotions directly impact all of the other elements. It...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 14, 20161 min read
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Mediation is A Better Choice for Children of Divorce
Like Susan Ingram the majority of the couples I see in divorce mediation have children. Early on in the mediation process, when I ask...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 12, 20161 min read
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A Plea for Mediation
In this blog posting, Ada Hasloecher shares a letter a wife wrote to her husband asking that they return to mediation and "allowing...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 8, 20161 min read
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Living Together After Divorce
When most people get divorced the last thing they want to do is continue living together in the same house. One of the prime reasons to...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 6, 20161 min read
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Nobody Said Mediation Would Be Easy
Like Clare Piro, I think mediation can be a hard thing to do. And while I firmly believe that it is the best option to resolve conflict,...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 2, 20161 min read
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Your Heart May Be Broken In Your Divorce; Don't Let Your Wallet Be
The average cost of an uncontested divorce in Canada is $1,845, but a contested divorce can cost anywhere from $6,145 to $87,974, with...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 30, 20161 min read
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Children of Divorce Deserve Special Holiday Attention
We all know the holiday season is fraught with stress, overwhelm and pressure for parents. But we are not alone. For children facing...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 28, 20161 min read
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