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Whose Side Are You On? The Same Side!
In divorce mediation Mom and Dad are on the same side, working together to resolve issues affecting the whole family, so everyone can...

Alan Jacobs
May 2, 20161 min read
Is Your Divorce Attorney Really On Your Side?
The corruption, collusion, and abuse that happens in the Family Court system is truly appalling. How does a person protect themselves?...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 27, 20161 min read
Keeping the House - Mortgage Refinancing During a Divorce
If you’re considering divorce, the first question for most couples is: “What should we do with the house?” The family home is usually the...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 25, 20161 min read
Special Needs Children and Divorce
Negotiating a divorce agreement is never easy, regardless of how amicable the separation. Not many people can manage to keep their...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 22, 20161 min read
Helping Your Business Survive a Divorce
While divorce is difficult for everyone, the fairy tale of "happily ever after" can become an absolute nightmare if the couple co-own a...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 20, 20161 min read
How do Smart People Divorce?
People often fail to realize how much of our perception about divorce is shaped by fiction: Television programs and films that depict...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 18, 20161 min read
Why Divorce Mediation Is an Appealing Alternative to a Court Fight
Couples who decide to end their marriage are often dealing with the most upsetting, stressful time of their lives, and the prospect of...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 15, 20161 min read
Avoiding The Financial Pitfalls Of Divorce
If you’ve arrived at a place in your marriage where you’re certain continuing is just not possible, then it’s time to do some...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 14, 20161 min read
Are You Really Ready for Divorce?
Your marriage is in question and you're facing a real dilemma. You may be the one who is deciding should you stay or should you go. In...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 13, 20161 min read
Consider a Mediator Before Getting a Lawyer for Your Divorce
Divorce is often a time when a person finally gets the courage to stand up and speak, yet is rarely a time when listening is happening....

Alan Jacobs
Apr 12, 20161 min read
10 Key Questions for Caring Co-Parents
Divorced parents face challenges that are not only complex; they are long lasting as well. There are many variations of joint parenting,...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 11, 20161 min read
The Cost of Litigated Divorce Keeps Going Up
Westchester County, NY may be a bit pricier than Southeast Massachusetts. Still, attorneys asking for a minimum retainer of $25,000...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 4, 20161 min read
Charity Calls for Law Change to Stop Kids Getting Caught up in Divorce Courts
“Parents often lose focus on their children as they battle with their ex-partner to determine who gets what, and who the children are...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 1, 20161 min read
Preventing Unforeseen Consequences in the Last Stages of Divorce
Toward the end of a divorce many emotions are involved—from anxiety to exasperation. Cost can also be a major factor weighing on people’s...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 21, 20161 min read
Putting the Divorce Mediation Puzzle Together
As Susan Ingram writes in this excellent blog posting, when I first meet with my mediation clients I explain that, through the course of...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 18, 20161 min read
Ten Ways To Protect Your Children During Divorce
In this excellent blog posting, Joan B. Kelly offers ten ways to protect your children from the fallout of a high conflict break-up. Talk...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 16, 20161 min read
Couple Are Rarely In The Same “Place” Emotionally Regarding The End Of Their Marriage.
Like Susan Ingram, rarely, when I see a couple for our first mediation session, do I find they’re in the same “place” emotionally...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 14, 20161 min read
The Dissipation of Marital Assets
Towards the end of the marriage — (during the period when the marital relationship has irrevocably broken down) — during this period,...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 9, 20161 min read
The Insanity of High Conflict Divorce
In this excellent blog posting, Elizabeth Esrey writes about "five insane but true facts about high conflict divorce." High Conflict...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 7, 20161 min read
What A Court Can Do vs. What Should Happen
Unfortunately, many people end up feeling that the resolutions crafted by Judges are unfair, even when they "won" the case. The reason...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 7, 20161 min read

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