• Alan Jacobs

College Strategies for Divorced Families


When the college-age children of divorced families begin their journey out of the nest and onto the quad, the best gift to give them is the peace of mind that comes in knowing their foundation is still there. The last thing they want—as they’re preparing for their SATs, ACTs and writing their essays—is to worry about the conflict between mom and dad regarding which colleges they can think about, because mom and dad have not come to an agreement in advance.

In this blog post, Lauren Behrman examines four of the most important issues to take into account for divorced (or soon-to-be divorced) families sending a child off to school:

  • Timing,

  • Choice of school,

  • Visiting schools, and

  • Financing

Preventing the differences between you and your co-parent from spilling out on college planning, school tours, or discussion about finances will help ensure that your child’s college process, and anticipating this transition, will be smooth and unburdened by parental conflict. In the end, this will empower your child to enjoy that new freedom, explore exciting new academic challenges, meet amazing people, and make you proud.

#Divorce #Finances #ChildrenandDivorce #Parenting

2 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All

4 Reasons Not to Buy Something Big During Your Divorce

Are you going through a divorce and also thinking about making a big purchase? Think again. Here are four reasons why your big purchase could be a big mistake. Will it belong to you? Wouldn't it be te

An Ode to Divorce Mediation

In this excellent article from the Jersey City Times, Jayne Freedman, offers, in her words, "an ode to divorce mediation", particularly its positive impact on children. Over Jayne's ten years of being