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Spousal Maintenance (Alimony) and Retirement
In Massachusetts the spousal maintenance (alimony) statute provides an advisory schedule, based on the length of the marriage, for the...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 9, 20161 min read
How To Help Your Kids Through a Divorce
Dissolving a marriage takes an emotional toll on everyone involved, including (and especially) the children. In this excellent blog...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 7, 20161 min read
6 Proven Co-Parenting Strategies for Divorced Parents
While moving through divorce can seem like an insurmountable obstacle, for many parents it is just the beginning of a new and equally...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 31, 20161 min read
Supporting the Grandparent-Grandchild Relationship After Divorce
When divorce takes place, everyone in the family is affected. Often the impact on grandparents is overlooked amidst the turmoil involving...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 26, 20161 min read
20 Things to Know About Divorce Mediation
In this excellent blog posting, Dana Westreich Hirt lists twenty things that people going through a divorce - and the many people who...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 2, 20161 min read
10 Things To Keep In Mind When Telling Your Kids About The Divorce
Telling your kids that you plan to divorce is not a conversation to be taken lightly. It’s one that marks a turning point in all of your...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 29, 20161 min read
What Should We Tell the Children?
One of the most typical questions asked of me by parents who are beginning the divorce process is, “What should we tell the children and...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 17, 20161 min read
Addressing the Best Interests of the Child in the Mediation Process
When devising solutions to parenting issues like custody and visitation, courts are guided by a variety of considerations, all under the...

Alan Jacobs
Aug 10, 20161 min read
You Thought Your Marriage Was Miserable - Wait Till You Get to Court
The breakup of a marriage almost always involves some level of conflict between spouses, but the process of litigation during divorce...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 20, 20161 min read
Whose Side Are You On? The Same Side!
In divorce mediation Mom and Dad are on the same side, working together to resolve issues affecting the whole family, so everyone can...

Alan Jacobs
May 2, 20161 min read
Special Needs Children and Divorce
Negotiating a divorce agreement is never easy, regardless of how amicable the separation. Not many people can manage to keep their...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 22, 20161 min read
10 Key Questions for Caring Co-Parents
Divorced parents face challenges that are not only complex; they are long lasting as well. There are many variations of joint parenting,...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 11, 20161 min read
Charity Calls for Law Change to Stop Kids Getting Caught up in Divorce Courts
“Parents often lose focus on their children as they battle with their ex-partner to determine who gets what, and who the children are...

Alan Jacobs
Apr 1, 20161 min read
Ten Ways To Protect Your Children During Divorce
In this excellent blog posting, Joan B. Kelly offers ten ways to protect your children from the fallout of a high conflict break-up. Talk...

Alan Jacobs
Mar 16, 20161 min read
The Right Parenting Plan
As Susan Ingram writes, a major benefit of mediation is that a couple can test out more than one parenting plan as they try to figure out...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 12, 20161 min read
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Many times parents feel like it is their obligation to stay married “for the sake of the children” – but more often than not, that can...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 5, 20161 min read
Moving Out Prior To A Divorce
The impact of separating and moving out can be very traumatic under any circumstances. It is even more traumatic if one party is taking...

Alan Jacobs
Feb 1, 20161 min read
Winning - or Losing - the Custody Battle
In this blog posting, Joshua Katz, a divorce lawyer in New York, writes that "winning a custody battle is all about your lawyer’s...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 19, 20161 min read
AAML Child Centered Residential Guidelines
The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers has developed Child Centered Residential Guidelines which seek to fill the void recognized by...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 18, 20151 min read
The Holiday Stress of Divorce
Our expectations of holidays change when families are navigating through divorce. Both parents and children are grieving. And, while...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 11, 20151 min read

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