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Define Your Priorities
A major benefit of divorce mediation is that it allows spouses to creatively craft their own solutions to the unique issues affecting...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 26, 20182 min read
What Should We Do With The House?
If you’re considering divorce, the first question for most couples is: “What should we do with the house?” The family home is usually the...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 24, 20181 min read
What Should Child Support Cover?
During divorce mediation sessions my clients often ask, "What exactly does child support cover?" Food, clothing, shelter Generally,...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 22, 20181 min read
How Long Will My Divorce Mediation Take?
When I first meet with my clients, they often ask me how long the divorce mediation process will take. My answer is: it depends. In...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 18, 20182 min read
Alimony Payers Lose Tax Deduction In The New Tax Bill
The new tax plan eliminates the tax deduction for alimony payments. Under current law, alimony is deductible to the spouse making...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 16, 20181 min read
Here's What You Need To Know If You Are Heading Toward Divorce
Your marriage is in question and you are contemplating divorce. Before you go down the path, here are a few things to consider: Q. I’m...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 12, 20183 min read
2 Steps to Finding the Best Divorce Mediator for You
Step 1 - Understand the qualifications of a “good” divorce mediator Choosing a mediator qualified to handle your divorce is critical to...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 10, 20182 min read
What to Expect in Your Mediation Consultation
There is no doubt that mediation is a lot less costly than litigation in every way – financially, emotionally and time-wise. The three...

Alan Jacobs
Jan 8, 20182 min read
Giving Your Children the Gift of Peace for the Holidays
The holidays are stressful for families. For families that have the additional challenge of recent divorce or separation, the first...

Alan Jacobs
Dec 20, 20171 min read
Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting
There are two basic concepts that describe the way in which parents raise their children following a divorce. These approaches are...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 27, 20172 min read
Same-Sex Divorce Complications
Two years after the U.S. Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriages, some couples who decide to call it quits are discovering that...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 15, 20171 min read
College Strategies for Divorced Families
When the college-age children of divorced families begin their journey out of the nest and onto the quad, the best gift to give them is...

Alan Jacobs
Nov 14, 20171 min read
The Children’s Bill of Rights in Divorce
I agree wholeheartedly with Robert Emory that divorced parents still must fulfill their responsibilities to their kids, and children...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 30, 20171 min read
What Should We Tell the Children?
One of the most typical questions asked of me by parents who are beginning the divorce process is, “What should we tell the children and...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 27, 20172 min read
5 Financial Tips for a Smooth(er) Divorce
Divorce is stressful for numerous reasons, but one of the most palpable pain points has to do with finances. Whether you’re currently...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 25, 20171 min read
Establishing the Mediation Environment So the Participants Feel Safe and Supported.
As a mediator, a critical part of my job is to establish the framework and ground rules so that the necessary conversations can take...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 16, 20171 min read
Is Mediation a Good Idea for Your Divorce?
Divorces can be brutal. Even if you and your spouse are trying to end things reasonably, you may still need to go through months of...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 13, 20171 min read
Divorced? 4 Valuable Life Lessons to Master Now
The aftermath of divorce can be a sense of self-discovery or internment in a self-made prison of depression and resentment. It’s all...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 11, 20171 min read
How to Take Charge of Your Divorce Process
Your spouse just demanded a divorce. What is the first thing you should do in the divorce process? The knee-jerk reaction for most people...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 9, 20171 min read
How to Keep Your Kids Stable When a Marriage Falls Apart
One of the most common questions I am asked when working with families in transition is, “Will my children be OK?” The simple answer to...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 6, 20171 min read

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