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The Children’s Bill of Rights in Divorce
I agree wholeheartedly with Robert Emory that divorced parents still must fulfill their responsibilities to their kids, and children...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 30, 20171 min read
What Should We Tell the Children?
One of the most typical questions asked of me by parents who are beginning the divorce process is, “What should we tell the children and...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 27, 20172 min read
5 Financial Tips for a Smooth(er) Divorce
Divorce is stressful for numerous reasons, but one of the most palpable pain points has to do with finances. Whether you’re currently...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 25, 20171 min read
Establishing the Mediation Environment So the Participants Feel Safe and Supported.
As a mediator, a critical part of my job is to establish the framework and ground rules so that the necessary conversations can take...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 16, 20171 min read
Is Mediation a Good Idea for Your Divorce?
Divorces can be brutal. Even if you and your spouse are trying to end things reasonably, you may still need to go through months of...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 13, 20171 min read
Divorced? 4 Valuable Life Lessons to Master Now
The aftermath of divorce can be a sense of self-discovery or internment in a self-made prison of depression and resentment. It’s all...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 11, 20171 min read
How to Take Charge of Your Divorce Process
Your spouse just demanded a divorce. What is the first thing you should do in the divorce process? The knee-jerk reaction for most people...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 9, 20171 min read
How to Keep Your Kids Stable When a Marriage Falls Apart
One of the most common questions I am asked when working with families in transition is, “Will my children be OK?” The simple answer to...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 6, 20171 min read
4 Questions to Determine if Mediation is Right for You
The decision to divorce initiates a series of many challenging and difficult decisions, often starting with: What do I do now? What are...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 4, 20171 min read
Nesting - Will It Work For You?
Nesting is a shared parenting concept that allows the children to stay in the marital home while the parents go back and forth. The idea...

Alan Jacobs
Oct 2, 20171 min read
If You Have Children You Will Be A Family Forever
Even though you may be divorcing, you are always going to be a family for your children. If all goes according to plan, your future could...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 29, 20171 min read
What Story Do You Want Your Child To Tell About Your Divorce?
We all know that divorce is hard on kids. My clients truly worry about their children and want to put their children first. But it can be...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 27, 20171 min read
Changes in the 2017 MA Child Support Guidelines - Part 2
Every four years the Child Support Guidelines in Massachusetts are updated by a Task Force appointed by the Chief Justice of the Trial...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 25, 20171 min read
Changes in the 2017 MA Child Support Guidelines - Part 1
Every four years the Child Support Guidelines in Massachusetts are updated by a Task Force appointed by the Chief Justice of the Trial...

Alan Jacobs
Sep 22, 20172 min read
Steps to an Empowering Divorce
Divorce is usually overwhelming, uncertain, and confusing. If not handled well the divorce process can be a recipe for disaster. How you...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 28, 20171 min read
Why Choose Mediation Over Litigation?
“I am going to take you to court!” Not so fast. Though going to court can be the answer you need to reach a divorce settlement, it is not...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 25, 20171 min read
Family Mediation: The Best Practice for Parents And Their Children When The Marriage Is Over
What do people in business do when they’re facing a crisis? They ask, “What’s the best practice to follow in a situation like this? What...

Alan Jacobs
Jul 10, 20171 min read
Attorneys at the Mediation Table?
Like Rachel Alexander, generally, in my practice, divorce mediations are intimate, including only the parties and the mediator. This...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 30, 20171 min read
4 Important Things to Do Before You Say ‘I Don’t’
I find there is an interesting dynamic to being a divorce mediator. While, as a businessman, I want new clients, I am always sorry a...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 28, 20172 min read
"We Disagree About EVERYTHING!"
Like Jennifer Safian, on more than a few occasions I've had couples say to me during their free consultation, "We disagree about...

Alan Jacobs
Jun 23, 20171 min read

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